The not-forgotten at Lone Fir Cemetery

I’ve always liked cemeteries.  Admittedly, they may not be ecologically-sustainable enough for the coming centuries of growing population and shrinking landmasses, but the cemeteries we do have provide a snapshot of history that we do well to bear in mind.  As largely-green open spaces, they can provide the spiritual nourishment of a city park, except with the watchful eyes of the past looking over our shoulders. 

Cemeteries reveal the cultures that made them.  They reveal what those cultures value, what histories they want to write, what they want to remember.  The Forest Home Cemetery near where I grew up was the resting spot for the remains of Chicago’s undesireds in the late 19th century, including Druids, Roma, the Haymarket massacre victims, and even Emma Goldman – people who today are more esteemed than the relative nobodies who made it into the “good” cemeteries downtown.

And so it comes as little surprise that similar historical reconsiderations are happening in Portland, surrounding the Lone Fir Cemetery that sits half a block away from a house I lived in and is where our cat got lost for one fretful night. 

Street Roots exposes the conversation in swing about the ways burial plots have been treated – namely, the way the burial sites of persons suffering mental illness were paved over and the way today’s mental health advocates are campaigning for a memorial for those buried there.  Lone Fir was the final resting place for the bodies of both Chinese workers and inhabitants of the local “Insane Hospital,” both of which were buried separately from the higher status individuals of pioneer families. 

What is the concept behind distinct burial areas, dependent on social status?  Is the concern that people’s souls will mingle if their corpses are too close together – and that’s a bad thing?  Or are the bereaved worried that they will have to mourn their beloved next to persons unlike themselves, people “like them?”   

Or does the city simply not want to remember everyone equally?  We write our histories not only in books, but in the very spaces we create as cities and neighborhoods and congregations.  May we strengthen ourselves for the tough work of community-building, in body, in spirit, and in memory.

Killed Wal-mart worker’s family sues

The family of Jdimytai Damour, the worker killed last Friday at the Long Island Wal-mart he was providing security for, are suing Wal-mart as well as the mall the store was housed in.  As well they should.  The company is utterly complicit in this death, through the ways they stoke mass hysterics and do nothing to contain crowds.  (If Oak Park can handle a midnight release of the fifth, sixth, and seventh Harry Potter books without a stampede, then an international chain should be able to, too!)  People can do strange, mean things when in crowds, and a store that intentionally creates crowds but refuses to take responsibility for them is a menace to society.  Maybe if they have to pay for their evil ways, they’ll take a little more care next time.

A Better Christmas

Today is World AIDS Day, the day to remember and mourn all the victims of the violence of HIV and AIDS.  This is an important day to honor.  So perhaps I should be feeling more particularly sensitive to AIDS today, but I’m finding it hard to feel more sad about AIDS today than other days, because the magnitude of the loss we have suffered from this evil  disease – we as a people, as a human species – doesn’t seem to strike me on an orderly calendar, but sneaks up and surprises me on any given day, cropping up here and there, bowling me over with the sadness I must feel (if I am human) to realize all that AIDS has taken away.

Which leaves me, today, feeling more immediately, sharply saddened by the death last Friday at the Long Island Wal-mart.  Not death, but killing.  Murder.  A ‘temp worker’ serving as a guard at the doors of one of these nasty establishments was knocked down and killed by the stampede, which also broke down the door to the store, at 5am when the crowds waiting outside surged inside.  They were eager to get the free giveaways Wal-mart tempts customers with.  It’s these special incentives the company offers that escalate this incident from death to murder, from accident to violence.  Three years ago, video footage captured crowds mauling persons in a Wal-mart entryway, in a similar scene.  But knowing what could occur was not enough for the company to resist continuing practices that stir up crowds into surging masses.  Hmm.

Others were injured in the stampede, yes, but one person was actually killed.  One person who went to work at a ‘crummy’ job early that morning, earning a little extra for the holidays, saw his last day then.  One person’s entire life ends that day. 

For the love of G*d, that is not what Jesus was born into this world for.

No doubt the people at the front of the crowd had little control of their own bodies, as the people behind pushed into them, crushing them forward.  This wasn’t a moment in which hundreds of people each made a bad choice.  There was little choice, in fact, and by the time the situation got to the point of death, there was probably little that any one or two people could have done to stop it.  So preventing such death requires that we step back and reform the entire process that led up to that moment. 

So what do we do?  What good is our sadness over loss if it cannot reshape us into beings who prevent such harm in the future?  It is far from enough, but one thing we can do is reform the way we approach gift-giving in our Christmas cultures. 

This, then, is the odd segue into my link to the National Council of Churches’ Eco-Justice website list of 12 ways to have a more ecologically-sustainable holiday.  The connection, in my mind, is the idea that if all those shoppers had resisted the cheap stuff and instead followed this advice, that store guard might be alive today.  It seems like a little thing, but little choices, for better or worse, do add up. 

Peace.